Ever assumed the worst… only to be proven wrong? That happened to me recently—and it nearly harmed a relationship I value. In this video, I share: A real-life story about car trouble, assumptions, and trust Why assumptions often escalate conflict How a simple conversation can defuse tension before it explodes Practical steps to communicate, repair relationships, and avoid misunderstandings 

This is more than a personal anecdote—it’s a message to Africans, Nigerians, Black Americans, and anyone dealing with conflict: assumption is dangerous. It destroys trust and relationships before they can grow. But calm conversation and honesty can save the day. 

Comment below: What’s the biggest assumption you regret making? Let’s learn from each other—and build stronger relationships through understanding.